We had a great week this past week. AM surprised me with little notes and gifts all week long. Emilie made me some pictures, and a handprint mold...and Pete gave me an awesome pic with a really nice note on the back.
Ann Marie and I are extremely fortunate to have had two rather easy (at least to me!) pregnancies, and, the result of that, two healthy children. I look at these two kids each day, and I often have to remind myself at how they look at me. They look at me the same way I looked at my dad 30+ years ago. I'm really the only consistent male figure in their lives right now, and it's up to me to mold them into the best persons that they can be. To teach them respect, manners, honor, patience, character, and fun!
We were in Greenville a few weeks ago for Connor's first sacrament. Their priest told the congregation, and specifically them, that they are simply here on the earth to Know the Lord, to Serve the Lord, and to Love the Lord - so that they may enjoy eternal life with him in Heaven. I thought that was a great saying to those children, and hope that I can teach my kids (and, for that matter, myself) those same things as they grow into the person that God has planned for them.
So, as time moves on, and these little ones keep growing up on us (I can't believe that Em is almost 3!), I hope that my wife, and someday my kids, realize that Father's Day is not really about them thanking me...it's more about me thanking them. I don't need gifts, I don't need a day alone on the couch, I don't need to get to sleep in (well, maybe that wouldn't be so bad)...I just need them to know that I love them so, and will Always be there. I will never be the world's best dad, but I'll keep trying every day to be better...and enjoying the ride along the way. AM, Em, and Pete, you're the best.
Happy Father's Day, indeed...